Genesee Valley Parent Magazine and Hochstein

A few weeks back I was working on my emails and I get this message, "Hey Deb, would you write into the Genesee Valley Parent Magazine's Special Needs Issue? "  The message came from Maria Battista-Hancock who is the chair of the Music Therapy and Expressive Arts program at Hochstein. The magazine was looking for success stories of kids with Special Needs.

Whenever something huge happens for Sam, ninety percent of the time it happens because somebody either told me, asked me or they brainstormed with me on how to make things happen.  I am not alone in this photography project and for that I am grateful.

My answer to Maria was an outstanding, "Yes!"  I love Sam's story about his successes at Hochstein so I quickly wrote into GVPM and that is all it took to get the ball rolling.  You see, Maria was the catalyst to Sam's first photography show at Starry Nites last April for Autism Awareness Month.  Maria is the force that moves Sam forward with his photography at Hochstein.  In addition to all of that, Maria is my friend.

This is Sam's snapshot of Maria and me.

This is Maria doing what she loves at Sam's Photography show "Autism Does Not Define Me" at Starry Nites. (Photo taken by Renee Hall Photography)

After I wrote into GVPM I received an email that was sent out to the Hochstein staff, "Our wonderful Debra is going to write to GVPM."  Wow!  I send out a big heartfelt, "Thank You!" to Maria.

GVPM accepting our story about Sam and his experience with the Music Therapy and Expressive Arts program at Hochstein  was a thrill for me.  I look forward every September when the Specical Needs Issue comes out so I can find as many resources for Sam.  The stories are uplifing and these special articles give me the means to continue on with my journey with Sam.  Pride pours into me as I see the article and have the knowledge that Sam will be giving others hope as they walk their path that is their story.

This is one Sam's photos GVPM used for their article.

Jillian Melynk, editor for GVPM, was the first person to contact me to inform me that they accepted Sam's story.  After I read the email I threw up my arms straight up into the air and shouted, "Touchdown!"  That is how I pat myself on the back for doing my job as Sam's Mom and being successful.  I think I probably let out and additional, "Woop! Woop!".  I enjoy my successes when I work hard to move further ahead with Sam.

Jillian and I sent emails back and forth for the interview.  I enjoyed telling her Sam's story and how Sam works with Music and Photography to work towards being a successful adult in the community.

The Hochstein story becomes complete when I talk about Joe, Sam's Therapist.  The photography story starts with Joe as I came up with the idea to use Sam's fascination with cameras to foster better reading skills.  It is Joe that advocated for Sam to use his photography in conjunction with music when Maria came on board as the Chair of the Music Therapy and Expressive Arts Program at Hochstein.  I chuckle as Joe tells me that I am like his mother when I give glowing reports on his abilities as a therapist.  I reply, "Am I old enough to be your mother?  Geez thanks!"  I say this in jest because it is a wonderful compliment.  And no, I am not old enough to be his mother.

This is Joe and Sam introducing Sam's video (Photos/Music) at the Music Therapy and Expressive Arts Summer performance.

What Joe accomplishes with Sam is phenominal.  He is a master of his chosen profession.  I would like to quote Joe as he explains what he does with Sam.

Sam's photography has organically become part of his music therapy sessions.  When Sam first brought his camera in, we used a song to teach him how to hold the camera and different ways to take a picture. 

Sam's first photo with Joe during that session.  This photo now hangs in one of the therapy rooms at Hochstein.

We also improvised music to accompany Sam's photography to explore the emotions the photos exude. Sam has engaged in Musical Executive Functioning Training which develops reasoning, planning, organization and decision making to create original compositions based on the elements of his photos.  Sam has used one of these compositions to gain insight into what it means to be different from others. 

Joe continues to say...

Sam works on a variety of skills including attention, executive functioning skills, interpersonal communication and using music and instruments to regulate his sensory system.  Sam has grown in a variety of ways.  He has improved his attention skills, reasoning and decision making skills, interpersonal skills including eye-contact and interacting with a variety of people in a variety of situations.  Most of all, Sam has developed a sense of who he is as a person, what makes him special and his self confidence has exploded.

When asked, "What do you like best about working with children with specials needs?"  Joe's response brings me to tears.

As with all my clients, I find great enjoyment in engaging individuals in music, using the music to accept them for who they are and discovering and developing new abilities to bring them closer to their full human potential.

Kudos Joe for a job well done.  Maria, Joe and Sam are breaking new ground for using photography with music in a therapeutic setting.  I am super proud to watch them as their story unfolds with Sam.

This is a photo that Maria shot of Joe and Sam.  It was used for the advertisment for the GVPM Special Needs Issue.

The story doesn't end there.  I had the pleasure of meeting Barbara Melnyk who is the President of the Genesee Valley Parent Magazine while at CLIX Rochester.  Barbara and I met at CLIX for the photo shoot of the cover of the magazine.  Barbara is such a lovely lady and you can tell that she loves her job helping others.  Barbara introduced me to Austin who is the owner of CLIX.  Austin is another amazing individual who instantly said, "We have to make a video for Sam."  The video is fantastic. I am one blessed individual.

This is a great photo of Jeff, an employee at CLIX Rochester, who was showing Sam his Hasselblad 500C.  The staff was phenomenal at CLIX.  It was a great experience for both of us.

Good things are happening for the Music Therapy and Expressive Arts Program at Hochstein.  I am looking forward to blogging all about it when it happens.

To view the Genesee Valley Parent Magazine's Special Needs Issue and to watch the video of Sam click on
http://gvparent.com/Special-Parent


*You can find Sam's photos on his facebook fan page Snapshots by Sam Maloney.

*The background of this blog was a picture that Sam took while looking for Salmon.

When We Lose the Exceptional Worker

There are times when life gives me challenges with Sam and Autism where I really wonder how I put my feet in front of the other.  It is not Sam himself but the situations that Autism presents that can make life feel unbearable.  The thing that grabbed and chocked me until I felt I couldn't stand it anymore was losing one of our exceptional workers.  There are people that come in and out of our lives and sometimes it happens so fast that all you are left is to say, "Don't let the door hit your behind on the way out!"  Being a single and economically challenged Mom, Medicaid doesn't really leave you with much choice on the care that your child receives when it comes to Community Rehabilitation Services.  In addition, I have no say in who is allowed to work with Sam and the duration of time that they will be with us.

Sam was in the care of a fine gentleman until the agency pulled the plug on the program.  Sam on paper looks like a very challenging child and we were having a difficult time having someone pick him up.  I had the Developmental Disability Service Organization involved and my days were filled with emails and phone calls to countless people trying to find help. Years before I had fought hard for those six hours a week that I had to fill and I was not about to lose them.

An agency finally picked up Sam and I will never forget when the over 6 foot guy walked into our door and said, "Hi! My name is...."  My first thought was "Wow, this guy is cool."  After the introductions all three of us got down to work.

When I think of our worker I think of Sam's photography because this is where a large chunk of time was spent.  Every Wednesday and Friday he would arrive and we would read the comments left on Sam's facebook page, Snapshots by Sam Maloney.  It was this guy that sat with Sam and me putting frames together for Sam's first show.  It was this guy's suggestion that I should put a "Thank You" on the wall for Lumiere Photo that helped with the printing and matting of Sam's work..  Brilliant I say!  Brilliant!  I would have never thought of it.  Our worker made our show better with that suggestion. The one thing that I admired so much was his business sense and suggestions that he would think of as minimal were changing the way I thought of Sam and his photography.

As the weeks went by I would watch and listen on how he worked with Sam. He would give Sam choices and left the decision to Sam on how he might better behave in public.  It was more informative than punitive and I knew that Sam never felt less than as he was thinking about the choices put in front of him.  This is an area that I know I fall short when frustration leaves me speechless.  It was equally as powerful when Sam would have meltdowns over reading his comments and we would sit and wait for Sam to collect himself as the worker explained that these people were supporting Sam and it was Sam that needed to give back.  It was very powerful stuff for sure. There are times when I feel what I call the "Pageant Mom Syndrome" and nobody wants their Mom telling them what to do.  Having someone else giving Sam suggestions is very helpful.

This individual's time with us was cut way too short. It just was not time for him to go because I know there was more to do leaving me with the feeling that we had just gotten started. When I found out that our worker  would be leaving us to work with the more challenging clients I was angry.  I made that very clear to his supervisor.  It takes me days to process difficult information and I am left with sadness.  I have never had a worker make such a deep impression.  To watch him with Sam was nothing short of magical.  I have never seen anything like it and I would be the luckiest of individuals if I had the opportunity to witness it again.

I am going to end this little story about a time that I feel the worker will most remember Sam.  Recently the three of us had gone out for Sam to take some pictures.  Our worker told me and Sam that he looks at the world differently since meeting Sam.  He really didn't think of himself as someone who could take a good picture and was thrilled when I made the suggestion that he find some places for Sam to get a special shot.  We ended up at this ice rink where there was a bridge over a little stream.  He lifted Sam up onto the ledge of the bridge and held him tight so he wouldn't fall.  (No worries, the bridge was surrounded by a fence and it was more of a protection that Sam wouldn't fall backwards.) He was starting to give Sam some direction and said, "You know what, take the picture anyway you want buddy."  I had to laugh because that is often what I say.

It was so much fun to watch a guy and a boy throwing rocks into the stream and then taking a picture.

Kudos for finding a special place to take photos even though it was behind an ice rink.

I cried a lot of tears the day I found out that our time together will be ending. The one thing that really hit me was two phone calls that I received after I found out the news.  One was from a woman that always calls me when she is going someplace fun with her kids asking me if Sam and I want to join them.  The other was from a very dear friend with some really good news for Sam.  Life marches on and I am on a ride with Sam to be enjoyed with the many faces that we are privileged to be around.  I also leave with the knowledge that if I ever need anything, the worker is only a phone call away.

*If you are reading this and say, "Hey, I was a worker with Sam".  I would say that I am 100% positive that since you are taking the time to read up on Sam, you were a very positive influence on us.


*You can find Sam's photos on his facebook page Snapshots by Sam Maloney.

*The background of this blog was a picture that Sam took while looking for Salmon.

Our Special Outings

I belong to a very cool Meetup group called Nature Photography.  Meetups is a nationwide program where people do just exactly that, meetup.  I was turned on to Meetups from a very good friend who told me to go online and research Rochester Meetup.  The amount of groups is aweome and anyone can find something that fits their interests.  I have yet to "meetup" with any of these people but I do get great ideas of where to take Sam from the emails that they send me. 

I don't think I could find all of these interesting places without the help from outside resources.  It is amazing that you can live your life in one place and miss all of the beauty that surrounds us.  This is just one more gift that Sam has given me with his photography.  I don't know if Sam truly understand the beauty that comes in through all of his senses but I can say that his visual sense of the world is profound.

It is interesting to me that a person with Autism will walk into a room and see everything.  I can't imagine walking into a room and see walls, pictures, knick knacks, pillows, chairs, tv, stereo, books, games, carpet, pieces of thread, pieces of paper, cracks in paint, blinds, chords from the blinds, curtains, computers and the list goes on.  This is what Sam's sees in our living room and he filters out nothing.  He is bombarded with information all the time.  The beauty of all of this information is seen in his photographs.  There are lines of light, shadows, shapes and beautiful colors.  I am there for every picture that he takes and I don't see what he sees.  How I think he should take the picture is totally different on how he wants to take it and his way is better all the time. 

This is what I do for an outing.  I have kept all of the emails from the Meetup emails in a folder that inform everyone on where they are going to meet.  I look it up and see how long it will take to get there and map out what the day will look like with cost of food, gas ect.  I also use the photography as a social goal and I often call Sam's friend to see if he can come with us.  His name is Kendall and Sam has a much better time with someone to hang out with.  Kendall uses Mina's camera because he doesn't have one of his own.  I used to take Mina with me to scout the area first but I have since stopped that ritual because we are all so very busy.  I just take the plunge and figure out the routes and Kendall, Sam and I discover all of these places together.

This is Chimney Bluffs near Sodus, NY.  Kendall didn't come with us that day.  I just love how the fall leaves frame the photo.

Sam and I went to Corbett's Glen which is in Penfield near our home in Greece.  I remember that day because it was jut Sam and me and I was the one carrying the camera and tripod while hiking on the trails.  I remember taking a photography class and the teacher said that tripods were like dogs, everyone wants to talk with you.  I found out that day that this was very true.  That day was filled with a lot of interesting conversations and I had a blast.  Sam had a good time playing in the stream while taking breaks from taking his wonderful photos.

It is diffcult to choose my favorite from that day so I will pick Mina's .  This is the photo that she wants to hang in her dorm room when she goes to college in the fall.

There are days when I am so tired but as Sam's very dear friend and mentor Nick Kelsh says, "You are only as good as your last photograph."  On this day I took Kendall and another young man, Marcus, with us and unfortunately I didn't have a camera for Marcus but he was a good sport.  Marcus and Kendall live in the inner city and they don't have a chance to travel much out of Rochester so Marcus was psyched for our short trip.  We went to Buttermilk Falls in LeRoy, NY.  I had to call Kendall's Mom, while on the road, for her to look it up online to help us find it.  All three of us ended up on this guy's land and he was a trooper as he explained where we could park on his land to walk to the falls. The kids had a blast skipping rocks in the stream.

This is a photo that Sam edited with Sarah who is his Music Therapist from Hochstein.   This is one of those photos that for some reason speaks to me. This photo is one of my all time favorites. If you look closely, you can see the falls in the background.

This is a picture I took of Kendall.

The three boys hanging together.

Our next trip was to Taughannock Falls that is located in Ulysses, NY.  I was feeling adventurous and decided to make the two hour trip with the two boys. On a Saturday morning I picked up Kendall and headed straight to the gas station and the boys felt like it was Christmas as I bought them snacks after filling up the car.

Once on the road, I realized that I didn't have the directions so I called Kendall's Mom having the toughest time trying to spell a rediculous long name that sounds like tonic with a ka in the middle of it.  The only thing I remembered was Ulysses and Rt. 89 and that is what I put into the GPS. After the snacks were gone the car was filled with "Are we there yet?" and I put the boys to the task of finding an ice cream stand.  Just when Sam couldn't take it anymore we found the tell tale sign of the big wooden ice cream cone.  The ice cream was a wonderful treat for that hot day.

Luck would have it that we were only a few minutes away from our destination and as we approached I heard beautiful sounds of "Woo Hoo!" in the back as we pulled in the parking lot with Sam having the last word of "Finally!"

Our first stop was looking down on the falls.  It was pretty and everything but the boys were more interested in the people that looked like ants down below.  We got back into the car to drive downhill in hopes of finding the trail. We paid for parking and headed towards all the other folks that seemed to know where they were going.  All I can say is that the rest of the day was incredible.

As a result of not scouting the place with Mina, I had no idea how long we would be on the trail.  I promised the boys that they could walk in the stream with the rest of the tourists on the way back to the car.  We finally made it and Sam's picture will not do the falls justice.

I thought this was a cool picture.

The boys skipping rocks.

As promised, the boys walked back to the car in the stream.

*You can find Sam's photos on his facebook page Snapshots by Sam Maloney.

*The background of this blog was a picture that Sam took while looking for Salmon.

Making a Difference: Hochstein's Music Therapy and Expressive Arts Program

It always gives me great pleasure to tell people how they have made a difference in my life.  However today, I would like to talk about Hochstein's Music Therapy Department and Expressive Arts Program and how they have made a huge difference in Sam's life.

Sam's Therapists, Joe and Sarah.

Sam’s early years were filled with chaos as sights, sounds, touches and smells bombarded Sam’s body.  He dealt with his confusion by running, hitting and screaming.  I was often his safe spot while being used as a venting vehicle so Sam could communicate his needs in inappropriate ways.  I was told that he would most likely live out of the home in a residential setting.  I had many interventions during that time and I believe that the people that sent me to Hochstein were the wonderful people of the Crisis Intervention Program at Strong Hospital.

Sam started attending Music Therapy at Hochstein when he was around five years old.  I can still hear his cries as we drove the half hour to his lesson.  I would carry him into the school where he would work with his first therapist, Wade Richards.  Wade would have Sam play on the drums until he felt like he was able to cope.  It was here that I learned about “Sensory Needs” and Sam’s need for deep muscle movement to regulate his emotions.  It was also Wade that helped me fight for a sensory diet in Sam’s school.

After time, Sam made huge improvements where he was better able to cope.  Wade Richards was the Chair of the Music Therapy Department and he took the tough cases.  It was Wade that transferred Sam to Joe Kostecki.  I will never forget the day when I first shook hands with Joe to introduce myself and Sam.

This is Joe and Sam.

I would talk to Joe about how I discovered Temple Grandin and her work.  It was Ms. Grandin’s words that educated me about what Autism was.  Her Mantra is to find the talent and the mentors for our loved ones with Autism.  As I read her many insightful books I was reminded of Sam’s fascination with cameras.  I had a plan to buy Sam a camera and take him on nature walks to take pictures.  I would share with Joe how I would  load the photos onto facebook, have people comment and have Sam read the comments to improve his reading,  I asked Joe to teach Sam how to hold the camera.  It was to both of us a great surprise when Sam started taking wonderful photos.

This was Sam's first picture.

Once I saw Sam’s photos I knew that I needed someone to work with him.   I walked the pavement to find and Expressive Arts Program for Sam.  I was told that Sam had to be 21 to qualify and I refused to wait that long.  Joe Kostecki asked the newly hired Chair, Maria Battista-Hancock, if Sam could be part of the Expressive Arts Program at Hochstein.  Maria said yes.

Maria and Sam playing the Didgeridoo.

Sam works every Monday with Joe Kostecki and they work on regulating his sensory system, developing cognitive skills such as attention and executive functions and using music to improve communication skills.  Joe and Sam often work with his photos and produce music on how Sam perceives how the photos would sound.  I love this because individuals with Autism have a difficult time thinking abstractly and Sam is taking a concrete picture and abstaractly thinks about his perception of the photos. 

Sam now works with Sarah Russell with his photography.  I am amazed on Sarah’s ability to transform from a Music Therapist to an Expressive Arts Therapist.  Sam is the first kid to be part of an Expressive Arts Program at Hochstein and Sarah and Sam have grown together and have made some amazing pieces of photography. 

This is one of their most famous pieces.  It is titled, "Many Green Leaves".

Sam works with Sarah every Tuesday in the high tech computer lab putting his photos in slide shows with “Garage Band” music that Sam composed playing in the background.  Sam works on editing skills in Google Picasa where he learns about such terms as compositions and saturation.  I am able to look at pictures that Sam and Sarah have taken together of the performance hall and feel giddy as Sam excitedly shows me pictures that they took of each other dancing across the shiny wood floor that is the performance stage.  Sarah tells me that Sam now mostly works by himself as he tells Sarah, "I got it".  Sam's independence makes me happy.

This is the picture that Sam took of Sarah.

When Sam first started working at Hochstein I had a fascination with the performance hall.  I though that the performance hall was strictly off limits.  I would sneak in and stand there and wonder what it was like when the hall was a church that housed the Underground Railroad.  I can only imagine what it was like during the memorial services of Frederick Douglas and Susan B. Anthony.  I look at the only 2 standing original set of pews and wonder who sat there. 

The school itself was named after David Hochstein.  David was a violin prodigy and was born to Russian immigrants in Rochester.  He was a composer and played in prestigious places including Carnegie Hall.  David decided to join the army and was killed only 30 days before the Armistice was signed to end the war.  David has been said to be "one of the finest violinists America has every produced".  David was greatly missed and in 1920 it was his patrons and friends who established the David Hochstein Memorial Music School.

Rochester is super rich with wonderful stories formed in history.  Hochstein is one of its most famous of places.  I feel privileged as I sit watching all the different artists walking past me and wonder if they are going to be the future’s superstars.  I chuckle as Sam walks into Hochstein standing out with his camera and tripod which is his instrument that makes beautiful music for our eyes. Everybody at Hochstein has their unique story to tell.  I am happy that I got to tell ours.

Twice a week we walk into these doors.

Different views of the stained glass windows.

Some different views of the stage.

Curves and lines at Hochstein

The piano

Last but not least, the pictures that Sam edited with Sarah.

I salute the staff of Hochstein for teaching Sam that he is a vital part of Society.  I have reached my goal of teaching Sam that he is important.

This is Sam's first self portrait that he took of himself with Sarah in one of Hochstein's dance studios.

*As of today, Sam is reading at a second grade level.  I call this progress.  It is only going to get better.

*You can find Sam's photos on his facebook page Snapshots by Sam Maloney.

*The background of this blog was a picture that Sam took while looking for Salmon.

 

Making a Difference: Nick Kelsh

I started this blog on November 14, 2011.  I had visions on letting people know how important they have become to me and Sam.  My first post was Making a Difference:  Renee Hall.  I talked about how I met Renee from an Autism Event.  I was so excited because her prices were reasonable and I could afford to get Mina's Senior Photos.  The day of the photo shoot I could never have imagined how my life, and Sam's, would change for the better.

Renee said two things to me that changed Sam's life.  One was, "You need to have Sam take a picture looking up into a tree."  The other thing she said was, "You need to put Sam's photos on Nick Kelsh's facebook page How to Photograph Your Baby."

That same day I put Sam's photos that he took of Mina with Renee on the facebook page How to Photograph Your Baby.

Here is how it works.  You can upload three photos a day of anything.  Nick picks the photos to use in his Nick Kelsh Radio Picture Show that he produces every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.  It is nothing short of amazing how he does this.

I posted three of Sam's photos everyday and was thrilled on how many people commented on his photos.  It was helpful because I started this project over one year ago for people on my facebook page to comment on his photos so Sam could practice his reading.  Because of this wonderful page I had more people to help with Sam becoming a better reader.

I can't recall when I posted this photo on How to Photograph Your Baby.  This was the photo that Renee Hall told me to have Sam take.  I do recall the day that he took the photo.  I had seen a tree across the way from our local bank and I pulled over for Sam to take the picture.  Sam was getting frustrated because it was difficult for him to hold the camera while looking up into the tree.  Sometimes when Sam gets frustrated I say, "Ok Sam, take just three photos."  This was Sam's third photo that he took of the tree. 

On Monday October 17th of last year I was looking through the facebook newsfeed and I received a message from Renee Hall.  She told me about the Nick Kelsh Radio Picture Show.  I had no idea that there was such a thing.  I clicked on the video and Nick was talking about the photo.  He said that the photo was from me.  I reposted the photo explaining that the photo was taken by Sam and how Sam was diagnosed with Autism when he was 3 years old.

On Wednesday October 19th I received another message from Renee telling me that Sam was featured again on the Nick Kelsh Radio Picture Show.  I clicked on the video and I started hearing Nick's voice. 

This is what he had to say about Sam's photo.

Debra posted this photograph a while back and I put it in the last radio show and since that time she has reposted the photograph and said that her son Sam, who was diagnosed with Autism 8 years ago, shot this photograph.  Sam is really into photography and I would love to see more of Sam's work.  We could always use some of Sam's work on the site.  We love using pictures that kids have taken and this one is especially beautiful, beautiful fall colors.  Thank you for that Sam, fantastic.

I was sitting at my desk and I cried.  I couldn't believe it.  My son, Sam, the kid who works so hard with his challenges was recognized by a guy who is an author and who has also been on national television.  I then put my arms straight into the air and shouted, "Touchdown!"  because I was so happy. 

I have to say that once I heard the Nick Kelsh Radio Picture Show I was hooked.  My kitchen is filled with Nick's voice every time he posts the show.  I often sit with Sam and watch the show and listen while Nick teaches us all how to take better photos.

During Christmas I posted this photo.  This is a photo that Sam worked on with Sarah, his Music Therapist.  It is a picture of the Liberty Pole that is decorated with white lights during the Christmas Season.

Nick used this photo to make Sam a Christmas Card.

This was his message to Sam.

For Sam, I love that you've been getting experimental! Isn't picture editing ama...zing?! Great picture of the Christmas light tower. Fantastic.!

I thought you'd like to see a picture I took of myself when I was just a bit older than you are now. I had to do this in the darkroom which you would have loved! (How about those cool glasses?!) Anyway, this is my little Christmas card to you and your family. Thanks for all of your hard work this year and Merry Christmas to you and your wonderful mom! Everyone on this site is so excited to see what you have in store for us next year! I can't wait to get you on the new website that's driving me crazy. Keep up the fantastic work!

Nick's website is now up and running at How to Photograph Your Life.  I have to say that the new website is, using Nick's words, "Fantastic!"

One of the photos I posted was a picture of a butterfly that Sam took and the Butterfly Exhibit at the Strong National Museum of Play.

It made the cover of the Nick Kelsh Radio Picture Show.  This is what Nick had to say.

Sam has been going to town at the Butterfly Museum.  I mean, look at this, please, please look at this photograph.  Look at the composition on this thing. Someone made a comment, "Wow, that boy has got some eyes."  That reminded me of one of the most famous things ever written about photography.  This is completely legitimate, now we are getting into the culture period of the program here.  I am going to read to you, with a little rewrite, an introduction to the book, "The Americans" by Robert Frank.  One of the most famous photo books ever done. The Introduction was written by Jack Kerouac, back in the late 50's.  He wrote to Robert Frank, I paraphrase because this one is for Sam. 

Anybody don't like this picture don't like poetry see.  Anybody don't like poetry go home see television shots of big hatted cowboys being powerated by kind horses. Sam, young, unobtrusive, nice and with that little camera that he raises and snaps with one hand, he sucks poetry right out of America into his camera taking rank among the great poets of the world.  To Sam I now give this message, you got eyes.

Nick is special to me because he gets how difficult Autism can be.  This project of photography is not easy.  The Autism gets in the way of Sam truly enjoying himself.  Don't get me wrong, Sam loves photography but sometimes he gets extremely frustrated because something isn't working out the way he thinks it should go.  I am constantly asking him if he wants to continue with photography and he always says yes.

A few weeks ago a kind hearted woman posted on Sam's facebook page about how NPR was accepting submissions from young photographers.  I posted four of Sam's photos and one was accepted and posted on the NPR Website. 

The photo of the tree was accepted and I was blown away how quickly people found out about it.  I am still a little dazed.  This is what Nick did for Sam.

And then Nick wrote a special message for Sam.

ttp://blog.howtophotographyourlife.com/blog/a-note-to-sam-maloney/

Nick talks about winning awards and staying humble.  He writes,

Sam. Just remember you’re only as good as your last photograph. You can’t hang your hat on this NPR photograph forever. It’s really wonderful and fun and no one is more proud of you than me (okay, maybe your mom), but with your new found fame comes responsibility to yourself. You need to keep shooting beautiful photographs if for no other reason than you and the entire world know that you can, and the world will be a better place if you do.

This message is also for me.  I am so proud of Sam and we don't make a big deal on the photography.  Autism is a social disability.  Autism robs Sam of friendships because he feels like a stranger in this world.  Sam is building friendships with his camera.  What Sam is learning is that people care about him and that is the biggest gift a Mom could ever ask for.  It brings me to tears when I think of the people that have come forward for Sam.

I am proud to say that Sam is a family member of How to Photograph Your Baby.  I am even prouder to say that Nick and his family, are part of ours.

Thank you Nick.  You are Sam's champion.

Sincerely,
Debra Pierce Bellare
(Sam's Mom)

*As of today, Sam is reading at a second grade level.  I call this progress.  It is only going to get better.

*You can find Sam's photos on his facebook page Snapshots by Sam Maloney.

*The background of this blog was a picture that Sam took while looking for Salmon.